I was amused by the title of this blog, so I started reading it. After a few minutes, I was intrigued by the mention of “‘unprepared’ groping” in this entry:
"What many men don't realize, though, is that those gestures and rhythms of early courtship -- that go-slow dance that pays attention to her signals, moves into sexual territory gradually and doesn't take her physical acquiescence for granted -- are part of what primes a woman to want to have sex with him in the first place. They're 'foreplay' in the most basic sense of the word. When a man thinks they have become superfluous, that because of the established relationship he can skip all that and go straight for the boobs because he takes pleasure in 'owning' and handling them, he's more likely to be pissing her off than turning her on."