anyone, anywhere, can have any reason for anything. when people talk of “logic” and mean “rationalization”, i can’t help but smile.
i may seem like i’m talking down about others but i’m included in that “others”. we all do it.
what we do with it after we realize we all do it makes the difference.
of course, there are those of us who don’t do anything with it. there are those of us who say that it doesn’t matter what other people think or feel; you should always be yourself. (ah, the battle cry of the self-absorbed!)
it really doesn’t matter? really? convince me.